Letting Go.

 Life Talks #2. 

“Some birds are not meant to be caged, that's all. Their feathers are too bright, their songs too sweet and wild. So you let them go, or when you open the cage to feed them they somehow fly out past you. And the part of you that knows it was wrong to imprison them in the first place rejoices, but still, the place where you live is that much more drab and empty for their departure.”  ― Stephen King, Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption: A Story from Different Seasons

 Hello guys, my name is Sarah and i like to talk about fashion and advice. In this post i will be talking about something the majority of us struggle with... and that's letting go. When i use the term 'letting go' it is not fixated to just one thing, this ranges from a wide spectrum of things. Basically anything that bothers you and you find difficult to forget and forgive.

Personally letting go used to be a huge problem for me, i found it difficult to forgive people who did me wrong. However when i realised that i was the only one hurting, this soon became common practice for me to let go. You just look and feel so much happier when you only focus on the positive things in life.  I could sit here and give you guys various and entertaining sob stories but laughing at my outrageous behaviour won't help you aha. So here are some tips on how to let go and let God.

 5 Tips on moving forward.

1. Cry it out- yes cry it all out. Get rid of any feelings built up. Crying is very normal, so no excuses not to show your feelings lads ;)
2. Change your perception - see this (whatever it is) as a blessing in disguise.
3. Focus your energy on something you can actually control.
4. Make a list of all your accomplishments, no matter how small and try and add to it as often as you can. 
5. Most importantly for all my spiritual people out there, just trust in God. 

OUTFIT:
Jumpsuit (culottes) - Boohoo.com  Trainers- Adidas Superstars Choker- Pretty Little Things  Rings- V.old (probably thrifted)  Bracelet- The boyf won it for me in an arcade along with other priceless stuff. I wear it tirelessly lol.  Sunglasses- eBay. V. similar to many in primark, Lamoda, literally anywhere.
As always thanks for reading guys, please remember to comment your thoughts down below. I love reading them. 

Photography by Amber Schormans.
Social media: Me SSOLOMON_                        Amber : Amber

Happy Readings! 

BELL SLEEVES & BRIGHT.

 BELL SLEEVES & BRIGHT.

 I stepped out of my comfort zone with this...

So today, i decided to try something. As 2016 is the year of growth, i have been wearing colour more often and i kinda like it *gasps*. This little ensemble from boohoo was only £7!!! So i had to get it. I love that it is off-shoulder and has the bell sleeves for a modern 70's look. As you guys probably have realised, the off-shoulder and bell sleeved look has become the summer 16 trend. I'm not a huge fan of trends because that's simply what it is- a trend. It dies out after a few months and so much money gets wasted, however i do believe that this is a style that will last a long time- kinda like the metallic tattoos. Therefore, yes, it is a good investment. So if you fancy looking all summery and bright then i suggest going for a bold colour and a bell sleeve!

Hope you guys have a lovely weekend!

Don't forget to leave comments and links to your blogs, i fancy reading a few!

OUTFIT dress: Boohoo sandals: JustFab  Photography by Amber Schormans. You can find her on instagram @Amberhs_photography 

LIFE TALKS: CONFIDENCE

LIFE TALKS: CONFIDENCE

"I'm not shy. i'm just holding back my awesomeness so i don't intimidate you" - Anon 

Hey guys, as you may know i will be doing a series which i call "life talks". I realised i love my style as well as giving advice so i thought why not do both? Also when we did the shoot we were kinda pressed for time i totally forgot to stand up and get full body shots but i'm still very happy with the results. 

Okay so how to be confident? 

For a long time i couldn't quite understand why having confidence was such a problem for people (this was when i was very young and dumb and didn't know about anxiety etc) but now i am older and slightly wiser i totally get it. Anxiety sucks. So here are some methods that could help to improve your confidence.

3 STEPS TOWARDS CONFIDENCE. 

1. Start the day with GRATITUDE.  If you begin the day with some grateful thoughts then you are likely to set up your day in a positive way. Therefore the happier you are the more confident you become. 
2. Chose your friends wisely. It sounds so basic and that's because it is aha. It's simple, surround yourself with positive and ambitious people and some of their charisma is likely to rub off on you. 
3. Take a daily step out of your comfort zone. This is something we all struggle with, we get so content in our little bubble doing whatever and forget that there's actually a world out there, The more chances you take, the more confident you become. 

 

 Le Clothes. 

Dress- Missguided

Shirt- V.old (sorry)

Shoes- Ego

My photos were taken by the lovely Amber. You can find her on instagram @amberhs_photography. She's really good!

Thanks for reading.